Wednesday, March 21, 2012

A Reading Dad

I've got my husband's attention.  Ever since I've started slicing, he begins the day with a question: "What are you gonna write about today?" At first, I wasn't sure how to take his sudden interest in my newfound writing life.  We never have shared a love for the written word together, even as he watches me devour books on a daily basis.  As I think about it, I am not sure I have ever seen him read or write if it wasn't out of absolute necessity.  

I must share with you my husband's literary history.  My husband is easily one of the smartest people I know.  He is an architect, turning blueprints into computer models, using his spatial and design talents.    However, reading is his arch nemesis.  He swears that the only book he's ever read cover to cover was Sideways Stories from Wayside School, and he tries to convince me each and every year that I must read it to my class.  He goes on and on about the amount I read, my love for all things written, and my addiction to books.  Never in a degrading fashion, but almost with a sense of wonderment. 

Yet, this guy with arm muscles with the circumference of tree trunks, curls up in bed with our kids and reads aloud to them every night.  He's read the whole Charlie and Lola series with Lauren, all of the DC Super Friends and Magic Tree House books with Eli, and he quite enjoys Junie B. Jones and the Pigeon series by Mo Willems.  I have even caught him rockin' out to Pete the Cat when he thinks I'm not looking.  (I have also overhead him singing it to the kids when he thinks I am in the other room).  I'm not sure he'd admit all of this out loud in mixed company, but knowing him like I do, I find the irony and the beauty in his new reading life.   

I read somewhere once that kids who had dads who served as literacy role models achieved at higher levels in school.  Some expert somewhere could be serving up a bunch of hooey to parents with that statement, but I have to say that I see the difference having a "reading" dad makes.  My son sees a man who will coach a soccer team, yell at the football game on TV, and read to him at night.  This same dad balks at spending money on himself, but thinks nothing of opening his wallet to buy the next book in the Stink series for his son.  My daughter sees a sucker who walks into the school book fair with an open wallet for the "____licious" books.  Both kids would rather head out for some library time with their dad than go anywhere else.  Their dad's a "reading dad," and I don't think they could be prouder. 

Time to wrap up the post, as I hear little footsteps on the stairs.  Time for me to say the goodnight prayers with the kids.  Daddy just finished up books.  I'm sure he'll asked me what I wrote about today. "Nothing much, honey.  Nothing much."

  


8 comments:

  1. Wow! Does your husband have any idea about what a huge impact he is making on your kids. What a super role model!

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  2. What wonderful memories - and what a great study that would be!

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  3. Your husband should be the next poster at Back to School night for what a role model truly stands for! LOVE IT! Don't worry, I won't tell him I know!

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  4. I absolutely love this post! It brings back memories of my husband reading to our girls what a very special time. I am so happy for your kids, how very special and what an impact he is making on their reading lives.

    I think it is kind of funny that we both blogged about our husbands not reading, yet they both love (in my case loved) to read to their kids! Interesting - ah the power of children's literature!

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  5. When you started out in the first paragraph, I thought you were talking about my husband, but that ended there. When we were raising our kids, Dads didn't do "the reading thing". I think it's absolutely fantastic how many of the Dads today take such an active role in the development of their children. Kudos to you & your husband. Your kids will truly cherish these moments with him.

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  6. Love that your husband reads aloud to your kids. He certainly is a wonderful reading role model.

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  7. My dad was a voracious reader. I can picture him now, in his chair by the window, with some book about ancient Mayan culture, or whatever had his interest at that moment.

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  8. I love that your husband is taking such an interest in what you are writing. What a gift he is giving your kids by reading aloud to them.

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